Put Yourself In Pakistan's Shoes

Last one month in India has been observed as Pakistan bashing month.Everybody seems to have some opinion on pakistan as to what should be strategy to attack them.India has in fact attacked Pakistan in its own way.I think diplomatic war is the only war that we can fight no matter what.Though i don't support war, i still think that people need to be taught a lesson.The question is who are the people that we should be targeting.Surely we don't want to hurt the same people in Pakistan that were hurt in India, THE COMMON MAN.We should for once try to put ourselves in the place of a common Pakistani 20 year old boy or girl.How would it feel if a country double in size of your country was constantly telling you what is expected of you.I mean for GOD sake Pakistan is a sovereign country.People there are trying to establish a democracy that has suffered a lot in the past.What message are we exactly sending to the terrorist who are taking lives on both sides.Are we telling them that they can create the atmosphere of animosity between these two countries whenever they want to.Just imagine If a maniac from parties like Bajrang dal or VHP or Shiv Sena etc. tomorrow goes and hurt somebody in Pakistani embassy and Pakistan reacts the same way as we did.Is it possible for us to give that person to pakistan.These people barring a few like Dawood have been leading a very respectable life in Pakistan.What they do in India is known to us and may be to pakistan govt as well but a common Pakistani doesn't know all this just like a common Indian wont know about possible support by India to revolution in Baluchistan.Just like a miscreant Indian Can't be extradited to pakistan because then parties like BJP will create such a hue and cry that all of Indians can imagine, similarly parties in pakistan cant afford to be looking to help india out of its way.India should ask pakistan to help in a way so that nobody can take any advantage.We should try to understand there problems too.Why doesn't Indian PM talk straight to Pakistan's counter part?Why are there statements being given daily to the media(which is as hungry as ever)?India really needs to show some statesmanship and not just complain to US every time.US Can't handle its own neighbors like Cuba and Mexico.What are we expecting from them?We have to fix our own problems and we can do that.We just need to think a little out of the box.